Casual or Confused ?

Sex sells right ?

Yea so I was wondering

and thinking

and I decided to post .

Sex : all of the feelings resulting from the urge to gratify sexual impulses .

It seems to me as though anyone and everyone

are just having sex these days

and its become something as casual

as a hello and goodbye situation .

However although its "casual"

it seems to me as though sometimes

the casual turns into comfort

and people get confused .

Why do some people believe that because someone

has sex with them, that person is automatically obligated to them?

I don't understand why some girls assume that because

they open up to a guy hes suppose to feel the exact same way

in return?

Sex in my opinion has become a little more casual

then it should be, not only are people just having sex

they are having it with anybody .

I'm starting to believe that sex is the new way to get to know the person your with

honestly I don't think that anyone now a days is really getting to know

the people they are in relationships with

I also believe that people are starting to use sex as a way

of showing how they feel, and it isn't .

Sex isn't whats going to hold a relationship together

and if you really knew and cared for someone

sex wouldn't be the glue to hold you and that person together right ?

i thought so .

Sex complicates things for people

and I'm tired of hearing of all the reasons that it does

If we took the time to get to know one another

then it would eliminate the whole waste of sex

when you realise that they have no real interest in you

and you two have no real interest in each other .

Sex is something that everyone is starting to hide behind

and use as excuses to do and "say" certain things .

If you have sex like its an everyday thing

what else do you have to offer ?

I believe that, if you honestly took the time

to love yourself you wouldn't have to

waste time finding it in a bed with someone else

having someone around is a beautiful thing

and so are relationships

however make sure their right .

and that's how its been put .