Growing .

Over this summer

I learned one GIANT key thing:

We should always allow people the chance to grow

and see other things around them.

What I mean by this is, in the process of getting to know new friends

and keeping up with old ones we sometimes forget that

although we have been around some people for long periods of time

they might have other interests besides their relationship with you.

Not that your relationship with them is of less importance, they just want to know

and experience new people and surroundings.

Sometimes in the quest to experience new things we tend not to forget, but to neglect our relationships that we have with people.

Although our intentions may not be to hurt people,

we put ourselves and our thirst and hunger for new experiences first.

I personally understand that thirst

but sometimes everyone cant understand it.

Its not up to them to assume that you want to try new things

its your job as a friend to be honest and let them know how you feel.

As seasons change relationships do too

its up to the people in them to decide if they want to continue

on to the next season with that same relationship

or if they want to keep that relationship distant

and just keep the memories.

Every relationship that ends isn't because of something bad

as humans many of our first instincts is to believe that

when a relationship ends, it must be because someone did something wrong.

It doesn't always have to be that way,

in fact many relationships end on mutual notes.

Sometimes people can be honest and open enough to let

a friend or significant other know that they aren't happy in their relationship

or that they don't see themselves continuing the relationship for whatever reasons.

Assuming the other person can respect their judgement

or even understand it at a later time
then they end well.

LoveLifeFlavie'

And that's how its been put .